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As sometimes happens, I was asked to assist a friend by directing a funeral. The deceased lived into her 9th decade, seeing college graduations and marriages from her grandchildren.The family was supported by extended family and long time friends. I'm sure the family was relieved not dealing with rain, wind or cold as they said a final farewell to their loved one. Still, I don't think the family will ever describe yesterday as glorious.
I love pondering perspective and do so quite frequently in my blog at http://Dr-Rhia.com/blog
ReplyDeleteDr. Rhia,
DeleteThanks for stopping by. I'll have to join you in pondering perspective.
Ahh, that's ashame. My perspective would be living 9 decades is something to be celebrated. If a life, when completed, leaves people not missing you, what good was it, then? She will be missed, of course, but her life was long and, it seems, fruitful. I think the life she shared with others and yesterday's glorious day were both a gift to be held in our hearts.
ReplyDeleteLilly
DeleteOne of the things I like to point to families when the weather is nice for a funeral: "Looks like your loved one already has pull, arranging for such a nice day, today".
You're right, 9 decades is cause for celebration... but goodbye for the last time is never easy.
Thank you for adding to the discussion.
Yet another wonderful post that makes us all sit back and think. Thanks, Barry.
ReplyDeleteNancy,
ReplyDeleteThanks for the kind words. Always great when you stop by.